Our adults have very good reasons why they say NO to us.
Sometimes it could be because the thing we ask for is too expensive.
Mum can you buy me a PlayStation 4?
NO!
Sometimes it could be because the thing is not good for us.
Mum can you buy me an 18+ computer game?
NO!
Sometimes it could be because it goes against the values and laws of our society.
Mum can I sit on your lap while you drive?
No, you can't.
Sometimes adults explain to us why they say no, and sometimes they don't.
You can't always get what you want.
You will not always get what you want.
You shouldn't always get what you want.
Being told NO isn't always fun.
You have to find ways to handle being told NO.
You can throw a tantrum, yell at the top of your voice and call your grown ups names. Some grown- ups give in to tantrums, but they are not doing you any good by doing so.
Grown-ups learn self-respect when they say no and mean it.
Many grown-ups will not give in because they want to raise you as a good person.
You accept that life is made from being told yes and no for different things, at different times, for different reasons.
And that's OK.
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